Stephen Edward Bohner

Lover of Hockey, Painter by Trade, and a Man of Resilience

Stephen Edward Bohner (aka Bones), 65, passed away peacefully of natural causes on May 18, 2025. Born and raised in Champaign, IL in 1959. Living out most of his childhood later in Michigan. Steve lived a life that was as layered as it was unforgettable. Hockey was his first love—a true lifeline. From skating on frozen ponds to playing with the Sun Valley Suns, the game was a source of identity, belonging, and joy. He played for 16 years with the Suns, and is ranked 26 of all time scoring leaders for the Suns.

Steve’s life wasn’t always easy. He battled addiction, faced legal trouble, and burned more than a few bridges along the way. But what defined him wasn’t just the struggle—it was his relentless refusal to give up. He believed in redemption and in the power of second chances. Like the music of Eric Clapton—whom he admired deeply—Steve’s story was one of pain, reflection, and a long, imperfect road to peace.

As Clapton once said, “I found a way to survive my reality. I don’t know how. I just know I did.” That sentiment echoed in Steve’s own life. He embraced recovery and leaned into it with steady determination, even in his darkest hours. He owned his choices, never made excuses, and searched for meaning wherever he could.

Raised Catholic, Steve carried a deep spirituality while also believing, as he often said, that "no one has a monopoly on God." He saw value in many paths and found grace in hard-earned wisdom.

Professionally, Steve always returned to painting houses. It was honest, physical work—and he took pride in doing it well. He found stability in the rhythm of brushstrokes and ladders, and a certain dignity in showing up, no matter what.

His relationships were complex. Not everyone understood him, and not everyone could walk alongside him for the long haul. But those who did—family and close friends—never stopped rooting for him. His sister shared, “I am proud to call Steve my brother and friend. He has faced adversity and tragedy with faith and honesty and has become a man of character whom I respect and love.”

He will be remembered—truly remembered—for his grit, his passion for hockey, his love of music and art, and his quiet courage to keep going, even when the road was hard.

A service is planned for June 15, 2025 at Black Owl Coffee in Hailey, ID 11am. Please check back for more details closer to the date.